Feeling stuck?
Ask yourself these questions:
Are you in prison?
Were you sold into slavery?
Are you a hostage?
Will you be killed if you make a choice?
If the answer is no then ask yourself these questions:
Am I lazy?
Is it easier to make excuses?
Am I scared?
Is it easier to be a victim than to be victorious?
See no one in freedom is stuck without choices. No one. Not making a choice is still choosing.
Unfortunately, it doesn’t always mean there is a good choice in the options available.
One of the most frustrating positions to me is when I’m in a place of picking between two options that I know are both bad options in different ways, and it’s a matter of deciding which type of bad I feel like i can handle best this round when I’d really rather have neither.
That’s usually when I find myself most trying to stall making the decision hoping something new and at least somewhat less crummy than the current options comes onto the table…
This is true Blue but you never know when the a crummy decision will lead to a better decision so keep choosing! 💕